Bringing a new baby home is a wonderful, but it is a big change for the whole family—especially for the first child. Suddenly, the older sibling has to share their parents and adjust to a whole new family dynamic. To make this transition easier for them, it’s important to help them feel included and still deeply loved. Without that reassurance, they might feel left out or even irritated of the new baby. I was there and remember how my daughter felt,when most of the time I was taken by the baby and his needs. Here’s why focusing on the first child’s needs and making them feel special can make a big difference.